Alchemy and Relationships

Relationship alchemy is about getting the people you want into your life. Imagine having any friend you would like in the world. Go back to the time when we were children all those years ago and the imagined company of super heroes, kings and queens, and famous people being our buddies. Boy did we have fun!

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The ancient alchemist sought a way to turn base metals into gold. These craftsman were after a way of taking something of lesser value like lead and turning it into something worth having like gold. The art of alchemy is one of transmutation. When applied to relationships it brings the people into your life that you want. It is called the alchemy of relationships.




You Are the Source

You are the center from which springs all the relationships you have. Think of a wheel and you are the hub. The spokes of the wheel are pointing towards and linking to your friends. Your friends and associates can only match the energy that is coming from you.

If you are not happy with the people around you here is the solution to this world wide problem. Start looking at yourself. It is something many do not like to do but it will lead you to long lasting happiness and friendships that have quality and meaning. Isn’t this what you really seek?

It is common to blame the outside world for things that go wrong in relationships. This is a big mistake. It gives the outside world more power while lessening yours. To become empowered look for the cause within yourself. I know it is hard to do. But this is the path towards mastery of the alchemy of relationships.



Quality Values Equals Quality Relationships

The way you treat yourself is important. The values you have are reflected in your friends. Do you value happiness, grace, and beautiful things? If you do then the chances are pretty good those around you value these things as well.



Train Wrecks Are Everywhere

Ever had a relationship that ended in disaster? Hey, we all have. All of us have experienced relationships that are nerve wracking and stressful. Yet we also want ones that are healthy and flourish.



Alchemy and Happiness

Treating yourself well is the beginning of the alchemical process. I do not mean with ego but with a healthy self respect and care for yourself and how you spend your energy. This changes and creates a shift in your energy. It leads to inner strength. The more you put into your own personal development the more your friends in the outside world will begin to match your higher energy.

You will begin to bring into your world the friends you truly want. They will have a similar energy to yours and the relationships you have will be harmonious and agreeable. When you have the people you want in your life your can rightfully say that you have mastered relationship alchemy.